Try again, if he refused again looking for work elsewhere, no offense. I had the crisis so far, not

Generally not oblige Sofia does not want to do something, and when it comes to something that's divided her (toys, food, place swing), much less. The reason is simple: I do not think I learn to be selfless forcing frozen yogurt machines her to do something. The lesson is learned otherwise altruism, more natural, living simply get situations where the other decides to divide, divide or refuse to feel that way to share and then change your mind and see how happy is the one who receives frozen yogurt machines from you. If you divide mouth to get rid of mother-know, I think once rid of it (the mouth, ie), you will not find too inner engines to convince you longer share.
Of course I tell him that look, would be very happy girl and her teddy bear to see you, but I say and do not want to give you right now is ok. I explain why it's important to share in all kinds of situations, and she slowly understand what's what. Sometimes offer one that has other children, sometimes agrees to provide when requested, and sometimes refuses the offer later time, and sometimes refuses categorically and definitively. And it's perfectly fine, and sometimes I refuse to share and honestly tell you, I should do it more often. Many times I feel like giving frozen yogurt machines others (loan money, time, attention), but I do not know how to say NO, I accept as a hen and lose. We should learn from Sofia to say no when I feel that I do NOT.
In most cases Sofia does not take toys to the park, just because he does not want to share them. And I think it demonstrates not only the selfishness doing this, but wisdom: avoid conflicts start. Generally not interact with young children, who do so are not very interesting, but often deals with girls 5-6-7 years who looks like a god. Most ignore some but after speaking hear, let her be involved in their play and so happy is my blonde!
Very often it is tainted toys others. And going to ask. It presents beautifully, then asks: - Can I play a little with that? If the other child says yes and stretch toy, start the party. And after we leave the park, I was glad that tells you received the toy and what was nice to give her child. He noticed how so only good to come across a man who divides, and soon she will want to be that kind of man.
Try again, if he refused again looking for work elsewhere, no offense. I had the crisis so far, not toys snatched from the hands of others, not never ran after her child was running frozen yogurt machines scared that she wants to take the toy. If you happen frozen yogurt machines to take another child toy in hand, she is fighting for a second, then drop and cries of frustration, at which time we come often, parents.
I was surprised but several weeks ago, was not even two and a half. I was in the park on sand, we did not have sand toys with us instead a larger girl lopăţele have a bunch of forms, buckets. Sofia went to her and asked her if they want to give him a form to play together. - No! He turned to me. - The girl said no. - It's okay, baby, go play elsewhere. - But I want here. He went and ask permission. And no. He stayed a few seconds, and went and told the girl: - If you give me a shovel you'll find another girl who will want to give me a nice game to go with it! Pause five seconds. - Come on, give me? A three lopăţele frozen yogurt machines hand stretched towards Sofia. Then out of the backpack girl also did not know how many dolls, animals, plastics, they played well together until we had to leave.
In any case, I am confident that it will become a good man and altruistic, even now prefer to receive and provide just learning to May (strangers, for us it's pretty darn). I like doing?
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Very clever your little girl! And you inspire me with your stories and stories. For now I identify only Iv little stories that I have a baby at home, no two months. In Phase Separators park and will get later ... Until then learned more from you!
Ah, what I wanted to read when you were my young children. How does? just like everybody does: give him too ala, ala too, because it's frozen yogurt machines "nice". And "good". And now increased and your word are not able to say "no" to profiteers.
Hard smart Sof! Often we learn from children (like age, as "degree") than us, just to be open to that. And to see that you are not lacking desire to learn, desire and power to live harmoniously. It reminded me of my niece, who last Christmas have 1 year and 8 months and saw on TV some poor children. Mommy explained that look, Mommy, they have no food, toys. And she went with nice mug of milk on TV saying "take your own baby." These kids surprise you